Safe sex is a core part of polyamory. Many polycules create a policy around it: ours includes testing after new partners, barriers, etc. Yours may look different, but here are key questions to guide an effective, inclusive policy: 1. Definitions What does “safe sex” mean to each member (barriers, testing, other measures)? 2. Testing How often should STI testing happen? Which tests? 3. New Partners What steps apply when adding a partner? How is info shared? 4. Boundaries Which activities are peop